Jay David was born on April 24, 1982. He is native of St. Louis, Missouri. He attended a local Crossroads College Preparatory School and graduated in  2000. At the same year, he came out as an asexual to his parents. After High School he moved to Connecticut and studied at Wesleyan University.


He said that he began considered himself as an asexual in the age of fifteen. During the College time he began calling himself as asexual person. Jay was founded his own project Asexual Visibility and Education Network and currently is their webmaster. AVEN is popular between asexual people and Jay, who also known in the social networks as AVENguy, trying to refine his project. Now his network has more than 70 thousand members. Jay along with his partners involved in visibility work and developed the new capabilities of his unique web project. Jay launched his project in the 2001 and now he built a serious community with their own thoughts.

Jay also was involved in the movie project about asexuality “(A) Sexual” which was released in the 2011 with a slogan “Not everybody do it”. Documentary film told about his life as asexual person, Jay said about his relationships and social problems. The film about his life style was produced by Angela Tucker, who also is an activist and was debuted at the Frameline Film Festival in San Francisco. Angela supported Jay with his activity and helped to make an asexual life documental film. The first idea for this project was born a long time ago, almost six years, when Angela read the narrative of Jay on Salon.com.

He also gives an interview with The Rumpus about starring in the film and the general position of his longtime project. For a question - What do you think of the movie in the end? He gave an answer “I am much happier with it than I thought I would be, because it is pretty personal things. I’m talking about my sexuality in a very public way, and this film shoved a really deep and personal moments about my relationships, on a special level that no other press has managed to reach before. It’s complicated a lot, but the way our society talking about intimacy is really sexualized, so this movie showed to us a great example of intimacy in my life that is not at all sexual things.

I also think, that is a very visibility tool for other people who was interested of asexuality. My community is trying to talking about things that are wrapped up in sex”. He also has his own podcast, which titled “Love from the Asexual Underground”. Jay is in the relationship with his girlfriend, who is asexual too. Along with her soul mate he wants to adopt a child. His total net worth is not disclosed by any source.

Last Modified: Mar 12, 2020


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